In what ways does hard work make you feel fulfilled?

Fulfilment depends on the goals it seeks to  achieve.

My sense of satisfaction from a task well done is contingent upon achieving its goal. Some energy-intensive jobs broke me instead of making me feel completely satisfied. In addition, a great deal of them left me feeling beyond fulfilled. When I find the goal of a task more enticing than the energy required to do it, I have a personal predisposition to work hard and diligently in order to achieve a successful output. I feel satisfied when an activity, job, or piece of work achieves its original goal.

My siblings and I assisted our dad in farming when we were little. Our parents would wake us up very early in the morning so that we may go to the

The satisfaction stemmed from knowing that I had finished a task assigned to me and assisted my parents with an errand, thus the effort required was equal to or less than the desired result.

But when I weigh the amount of effort I currently put into my work against its goal and its results, I feel unfulfilled. With two young daughters, my partner and I are trying our best to raise them as best we can. Because of the high energy and health dangers associated with my warehouse job, I took it on to support my family. Every day and every month, I come to feel broken and unfulfilled because of the salary

because there is little to no leftover money from the pay cheque after paying the rent. My rent alone is £1400–1450 a month, even with an income of 1800–1900 pounds.

I have a monthly council tax of 150 pounds. Even with my spouse’s assistance, we still struggle to make ends meet because we all have water and electricity bills, children’s school fees, food expenses, clothing expenses, and prescription costs, on top of my earnings. 

As a result, every day after putting in long hours of work, I feel empty and shattered rather than fulfilled since the energy I put into my profession does not match or accomplish its goal, which is to support my family. 

The reasoning for my initial  assertion that the accomplishment of a sense of fulfilment following a challenging task depends on the goals it seeks to achieve.

When hard work does not equate to high pay. The workers bear the brunt. 

List three jobs you’d consider pursuing if money didn’t matter.

Author/Chef/Advisor 

I’ve always known that I enjoy writing, especially when it has a beneficial effect on others. My interest in writing began at a young age, as I read popular novels during my high school years, including those by Chinua Achebe, Things Fall Apart, Shakespeare’s Twelve Nights, and The Marchant of Venice, to name a few. My desire to walk in their footsteps grew as I became enthralled with the way these Nobel laureates changed the world with their writing. I tried, but because of the inadequate supplies and conditions, I lost all of my work. 

But I’ve written about my situation on my blog, Unheard Cries of a Dying Passion, which I strongly recommend you to read when you have some free time.

I am really happy that individuals from all around the world like you are visiting my page. I get greater encouragement and motivation when people read and comment on my work. One of my loves is writing. If it makes a beneficial impact on people I’m happy with it, I’ll choose it even if I don’t get paid for it.

If money wasn’t an issue, I would have also taken up cooking as a career. 

My mum was a skilled food trader. At the time, she was regarded as the best in our town. She goes by Grade One and has specific recipes for everything she cooks. A Name that I have thought about a great deal if i am to go into restaurant business .

   Advisor, even in the absence of funds, this is the third career I could pursue. However I’ve been doing it already because friends and acquaintances have often thanked me for my helpful suggestions and guidance during difficult times, which has enabled folks to get out of difficult situations without requiring payment. Or favours in return.

What aspects of your cultural heritage are you most proud of or interested in?

Igbo Apprenticeship 

I am more proud to be Igbo. My name, Uju Chukwuaku, is imposed upon me as it solely relates to my origins. As a country, we are endowed with a multitude of long-standing traditions and practices, referred to as ōménala igbo*. These include practices in music, visual arts, apprenticeship, dress, cuisine, and language, to name a few. But a small number.

Since they are what made us special without demeaning the others, it’s hard to pick only one. After Igbo traditional marriage, though, one of the cultural legacies and customs of which I am most proud is Igbo apprenticeship.

To put it briefly, 

Igbo Apprenticeship is a custom in which business or company owners take in younger or teenage boys from their close and extended family and train them as apprentices in the business, teaching them the fundamentals of the industry and how it operates while they learn, assist, and run errands both inside and outside the store. A little graduation celebration for the teenage boy who has grown into an adult and improved with knowledge of the business trade would be held once the training’s designated duration of five to seven years had passed. In addition, he would receive a lump sum payment for their services over time, which he would utilise to launch a company of which he would eventually become the owner and retain. Individual success has sprung from this, Because of their success on an individual basis, the Igbo people are now the most prosperous nation in Nigeria. Igbo Apprenticeship has also shown to be the world’s largest platform for business incubators. 

 Visit…(Robert Nuewirth, TED)

What could you do more of?

*Let your yes be Yes and no be No*

The written message that was hanging on my dad’s door going to his room never really made sense to me as a child. Every time I went into his room as a child, my gaze was fixed on it.**let your yes be Yes and no be No**. I discovered that in circumstances where a simple response is sufficient, I don’t have to repeat myself or use a lot of words. Our father set an example for my brothers and me by always telling the truth, even in the face of difficulty. He gave us this advice on many times. As time goes on and the boy’s fatherhood emerges, I recognise how the crucial inscription has influenced and counselled me. Say yes when you want to and say no when you don’t Realising that when anything is done with honesty, it always turns out the way it should, no matter who or where it ends up. Being sincere and truthful pays off.

What things give you energy?

Purpose…

Our daily existence depends on energy; the amount we devote to a task and its outcome are both determined by its volume. I ask that we be specific when we discuss energy. For all other energies, genuine energy is a prerequisite. The energy we derive from things like eating food, sleeping/resting, going on trips, etc. is determined by genuine input, for instance. Your level of energy during breakfast is a direct reflection of the energy you expended previously. Put simply, my energy comes from having a mission/purpose.

The energy we possess to succeed in challenging situations stems from our strong sense of resolution and determination in pursuing our goals, coupled with unwavering persistence. Likewise, with the incorrect motivation and goals, a promising scenario could end in failure.When the mind is made up, the flesh has nothing but little options. 

Which topics would you like to be more informed about?

Mindfulness …

We frequently concentrate more on things that break us than ones that heal us, and I know this from having been through a lot as a result of my choices and the circumstances beyond.

Life is what occurs to us in the midst of our other commitments.most of the time as a result of stress-inducing unforeseen circumstances. We hardly even notice our surroundings or our state. Moreover, the stress of guaranteeing an ideal future and a luxurious life of luxury rides our happiness to the bone. Many are hence despondent, mentally unwell, experiences heart problems, or worse, passes away. It would be fantastic to teach people more about the condition of their mental health and the significance of attaining it by emphasising present-moment awareness while also boldly stating their ideas and feelings. Even in times when pressure from the past and future is at its highest, people should be taught the value of living in the moment and appreciating it.mindfulness is a virtue We all should practice or better say have.

What would your life be like without music?

Honestly, I love music, especially in my emotional highs and lows, for I understand the lyrics better, With the volume tuned down, I could dance around in happiness or as well cry under my blanket of bitterness. However, my life would likely have turned out the same because I seldom listen to music and am not up to date with new songs. I could stay quite a longer period without listening to One. When I hear people say they cannot go a day without music, I ask myself if I am normal because I am opposite. As an introvert, I prefer and  love the tranquillity of my environment, which I enjoy the most. Which is not to say I do not enjoy the good rhythm of music and its allures.

How do you celebrate holidays?

I eagerly anticipate my holidays every year. However, the length and season determine how they are spent. Generally, I prefer spending holidays—both short and long—with my family, depending on the time of year. I will never forget the December trip I took to see my parents back home and the happiness on their faces at my arrival.Long holidays enable me to visit my extended relatives, while short ones are exclusively spent with my immediate family indoors and outdoors.